Thursday, August 21, 2008

Faith and Fiction Retreat Recap

(From l to r: Authors Tiffany Warren, Sherri Lewis, Kendra Norman-Bellamy, Bonnie Hopkins, Victoria Christopher Murray, Dwan Abrams, ReShonda Tate Billingsley, and Mikasenoja)

I drove to last weekend's Faith and Fiction Retreat. I'm still relatively new to Florida so I'm not the best judge of distances in this state. On the map, it looked like Destin was about four hours away from Tampa, kind of like driving to Jacksonville but going west instead of east.

Wrong!

It was a solid seven hour drive. Closer to eight, given the rain in Tampa on Thursday, the accident just outside of the Tampa area, and the 10 miles of construction near Tallahassee. I finally made it about 1:30 AM, after getting a late start due to working until 3:30 instead of noon, as planned. I was so proud of myself because I do not drive at night. Pretty much never. I don't see well due to the oncoming glare and after a day at work, I expected to be sleepy.

But adrenalin kept me going. That and the fact that I stopped to use the restroom three times when I'd purposely drunk almost no water that day. I started thinking I'd need to see the doctor when I returned but it was just God giving me breaks that I might not have taken myself. (On the way back, I only stopped once.)

One of the best things about the retreat was the people. It was great to meet some of my favorite authors, new authors, other aspiring authors, and other avid readers.

This was definitely a retreat. I didn't know what to expect because I'd never been to an out-of-town reader or writer event before. The retreat was held at a beautiful resort getaway with sandy FL beaches. There were about forty or fifty people in attendance, just enough to keep it very interesting but yet keep it small and cozy. I found lots of camraderie, an openness and sharing, even with the multi-published authors that I never imagined.

I had a great suite mate in Tyora Moody, although I'm sure she didn't appreciate me waking her up following my late arrival, which I only did because Ty had deadbolted the door from the inside! The hotel staff had no way of getting me in without waking her! (Note to self: Only take pictures standing up, at least until some of those extra lbs start dropping off!)

I was shocked to get up Friday morning but I did. And I stayed awake all day because the program was chock-full of good stuff.

This turned into a tremendous opportunity to learn more about writing and the publishing journey. Publisher Urban Christian was well-represented and authors on other imprints talked about their experiences as well. I came away inspired although having it confirmed that Urban Christian is no longer accepting unagented manuscripts was a bit of a bummer.

The Friday sessions included topics like "The Ministry of Writing", "Birthing the Vision" and "Is it or isn't it? The Difference Between Inspirational and Christian Fiction".

Friday night's dinner was at Trader Vic's. Sort of a polynesian-Hawaiian-Asian sort of menu. I like to try new foods when given the opportunity so I had macadamia nut-topped opah, a meaty fish kind of like swordfish but much more bland, with wasabi mashed potatoes and a fruity-garlic sauce. I think pineapple but I can't remember. Truthfully, I wasn't excited and the only way I was able to really eat it, because the wasabi mashed potatoes were much spicier than the waitress led me to believe, was to get a bit of fish, potatoes, and nuts in each mouthful. Don't know why but the combination was pretty good. But absolutely had to have all in each bite. If any one was missing...yuck!

I started Saturday morning by going down to the fitness center at 7 and cycling for about 45 min. I am proud of myself for doing that, as much as for driving in the dark, because working to improve my health is a major priority of mine right now.

Saturday's program included an author panel presentation and book signing, a showcase of the Urban Christian authors, and an impromptu panel featuring ReShonda Tate Billingsley and Victoria Christopher Murray on the publishing journey when the keynote speaker was unable to make it.

I left home with four books to read. I read those and returned with eight more. You know I had to purchase books. They were calling to me, even though I'd read half of the books available already. I bought most of the other half.

I also bought all new pajamas for the evening book discussions. I missed the first pajama session on Thursday because I was on the road. But I made the second one, featuring ReShonda, the author who called me out right here in the comments on my own blog last week. Check us out in our pink pj's. At the final PJ discussion, almost no one wore pajamas because it flowed right out of our Saturday evening Hawaiian Luau dinner, during which we watched the Obama-McCain discussion with Pastor Rick Warren of Saddleback Church. So I saved that black number for when I got home (although Hubby was asleep before me and me up before him the next day, so he never saw it!)

I've got more to say about Miss ReShonda so see my next post.

I skipped out on the Sunday morning closing session so that I could get an early start back and be home before dark. I also had to complete my preparations for Middle Son's first day of kindergarten that Monday.

Overall, it was a tremendous event. Tiffany Warren and her staff did an outstanding job. Although I haven't been to anything like this before, I could tell it was unique and special. I hope to go again next year.

UPDATE: Rhonda McKnight blogged about her experience at the retreat here.

UPDATE #2: My roommate for the retreat, Tyora Moody, posted her recap. Hers includes a video slideshow, which you can see here.

Peace & Blessings,
Patricia
Stay focused. Move Forward. Believe.

21 comments:

Bella said...

Patricia,

Sounds like you had a ball. After hearing from Francine Craft that Harlequin dropped a lot of BET authors because of poor sales, I'm happy to see that sister-authors are not deterred from doing their thing.

ON a different note, Denise tagged me and I added you to the list. Stop by my blog then let us know what you're reading.

Bella

The Gospel Writer said...

Oh my! You and Rhonda McKnight are making me cringe for not going. I'm sure to look out for next year dates.

Angela said...

Great post! I'm gonna link to it on my blog.

Patricia W. said...

Very cool, Angela. I'd love to see you as a featured author next year.

Rhonda McKnight said...

I thought those p.j.'s were new. You didn't want to see what I was sleeping in.

I took the books out of my bag last night. Boy, did I buy alot of books. Like 12 yikes! No wonder my p.j.'s have a whole in them.

Wanza - yes, you missed it, but there's always next year. Do not miss it next year.

Pat - I rode with Sherri Lewis and she kept looking at me like why do you have coffee and a coke??? I can hold it like a champ. Probably not a good thing.

Patricia W. said...

Wanza, you gotta be there!

Rhonda, normally I can too. This was definitely a God-thing to keep me awake! LOL!

Gwyneth Bolton said...

Patricia ~ It sounds like you had a wonderful time! It sounds like a really great conference and seems like you really had a chance to interact with other readers and writers on a close and intimate level. Great post! And cool pictures!

Gwyneth

gcheney1 said...

Great to hear that "working to improve my health is a major priority of mine right now." It's hard to do when there are so many activities and people pulling for our time! There is a community of us at Faith First Fitness that is "pursuing genuine faith and lifelong fitness."
- Greg from Faith First Fitness

Chicki said...

What a great weekend! I'm so glad you made it.

Did you meet Ashea Goldson or Caterri Leaks? Ashea is my church sister, and I met Caterri and Rhonda at a GRW meeting and again at Ashea's book launch party last week. Wonderful women.

Ty said...

LOL! You are too funny! It was great rooming with you. Sorry about the deadbolt thing. I didn't know what happened to you. Next time we exhange cell #'s in advance.

I'm hoping to post my photos and stuff this weekend. I will link to you and Rhonda's post on my blog.

Have a blessed weekend and get some rest! LOL!

Patricia W. said...

Thanks for letting me know about Faith First Fitness, Greg. I'll check it out.

I met Ashea briefly, Chicki. She was very quiet and reserved, which I am not. But she read an excerpt from her book, The Love Child that was powerful and intriguing.

Ty, we can room together any time, starting with next year's retreat!

ReShonda Tate Billingsley said...

Patricia, (I'm back) I told you that Cyberspace thing wasnt a joke. Seriously, it was so nice to meet you (And if you've never met Patricia in person - SHE is the funny one). Just from your blog, and the passion you have when you talk about writing, I can tell your book is going to be great! I can't wait to read it. Give me a date, a solid date when it'll be finished. Yes, I'm calling you out again:-).

Patricia W. said...

Not again!!! See ReShonda, that's why you're getting a whole post to yourself on Monday.

I'll be finished December 20, the last Saturday before the Christmas holidays. So I'll be ready to submit in 2009!

Patricia W. said...

Gwyneth, I suspect it was kind of like RSJ but on a smaller scale.

bettye griffin said...

You went through quite a bit to get to the conference, and I'm so glad you enjoyed it and found it worthwhile! I had no idea Destin was that far from Tampa. I must be rusty on my Florida geography.

Patricia W. said...

Yes, I did Bettye! But it was definitely worth it.

Yasmin said...

I'm loving it...great recap!
xoxo

upwords said...

I love it! It sounds like y'all had some straight up fun. The pictures and smiles say it all. Isn't Ty a sweetheart? And you met her in person before me. LOL

marilynn
off to check the dates for next year

Patricia W. said...

Thanks Yasmin!

Marilynn, hope you make it next year, especially if it's in FL again. You would make a great featured author too. Picked up a copy of IF THE SHOE FITS, the only Sassy Sistahood book I'd missed.

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Patricia W. said...

Thanks for stopping by, Sarah. Keep reading!